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Love Thy Enemy

There are a lot of teachings that our blessed Savior espoused that, for the faithful disciple, reflects a hard path, and a tough road to go down. Yet, even as we consider that, there is one that stands out with a sense of difficulty that is perhaps the most challenging: “love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” (Matthew 5:43-45)

Contemplating it even now one has to wonder exactly what Christ meant. After all, we live in a world of struggles and adversity, one where so often, it would seem at least, when one challenge fades another arises to strike at us. As warriors for Christ (Ephesians 6:10-18) we are not meant to be doormats, to be the ones who are walked all over. To run the race with endurance (Hebrews 12:1) we have to be strong, and to assert ourselves in a world where the wisdom of God is so often viewed as foolishness.

How then can we properly love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us? How can that be the ground we stand upon and find that we maintain our integrity?

Perhaps our best understand comes from the story of Saul of Tarsus. (Acts 9:1-19)

The great persecutor of the early church, there were few names that reached as far or struck as much fear as his. Any disciple who wished to preserve their life knew he was a force to be avoided. There were few who could be viewed as a greater enemy than him. Yet, on the road to Damascus, with a hatred in his heard, it would be the same man who would hear the thundering voice of God shake the earth around him, calling out to him.

The point is we never know who God is going to call, nor do we know the miracles that He is going to work. Yet what we do know is that if God truly is love, (1John 4:8) then there is no greater weapon against Him, nor any more powerful tool to be used against His will than our hatred and our fear. It breeds an animosity, a scornful tongue and a self-righteous spirit that does nothing more than hinder His plan and His design.

The disciple is called to love their enemy and to pray for those who persecute not because it is an easy task or a simple one, but because it is the right one. By failing in this teaching we let thoughts and ideas into our hearts and minds that have no rightful place there. We allow ourselves be tempted in a way that prevents our spiritual growth as we trust our own understanding more than that of God’s. After all, to hate is to believe that one is beyond redemption, beyond salvation and thereby of little value or worth. It is to dehumanize God’s creation when the truth is we need to hope on their redemption all the more, with a greater sense of purpose.

Failing to do this does nothing but harden our own hearts and the hearts of those who need love, who need to be guided by it all the more against us and the guidance they may need.

The truth is not all may have the road to Damascus conversion of Saul. Some may stand steadfast in their ways, guided in the belief that where they stand is right. That does not mean that we should hope any less, understanding where hope and love are, that is where faith begins. In doing this we show a greater trust in God and a better understanding of what his plan is.

Do not rejoice in the fall of others, nor hate any. It blinds you to love and charity, to hope and to faith. In doing this we create for ourselves a stumbling block that ensnares us in the challenges it offers. Be strong and courageous, realizing that, through Christ Jesus, there is no greater power that we possess in our lives than the power we have to love. It is then, and only then, that, as a disciple of our blessed Savior, Christ Jesus, we become the imitator of him that we were intended to be.

Affirm others

Proverbs 3:27 (NIV)  Do not withhold good from those who deserve it, when it is in your power to act.

 

There is a lot to be found in scriptures about others believers poorly. A believer is told to turn the other cheek in Lamentations 3:30, and the entire book of Job is filled with stories of distress. Life as a Christian does not come with a built in guarantee that happiness and joy will come easily. But God tells us how we should treat others while he reminds us that life isn’t always going to be easy.

 

Proverbs 3:27 is one of my favorite verses. In my opinion, one of the most empowering things that you can do for someone else is to give credit where credit is due. A variety of things get in the way at times. We get too busy. We are too proud. But one of the best ways that you can give someone strength is to pay them with your words. Give them verbal credit when they have earned it. It may feel uncomfortable, but giving positive words of affirmation can be completely what another person needs and perhaps God wants to work through you today!

 

Ecclesiastes 7:5 It is better to heed a wise man’s rebuke than to listen to the song of fools.

 

Self Worth is earned when we work hard for something and earn it. Let someone earn positive words of affirmation today that come from you. They may be surprised, and honored. Flattery doesn’t find it’s way into true self worth. Your genuine words of truth and affirmation are a special and unique gift that can only be given by you.

 

Those of us who have children can apply this in a practical way today with our little ones, and affirm them with positive and appropriate words. Even children know when adults simply flatter them.

 

Even better, affirm people in the presence of others. Giving credit where credit is due is a gift that is deserved. It will fill your children up better than a drive through meal and appropriate, deserved affirmation will give them more self worth than the half dozen other activities that we tend to enroll our children in, and then subsequently rush them to throughout the week.

 

Galatians 6:10 (NIV) Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.

 

Do Not Love the World

The First Letter of John

1 John 2:15-17  15 Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.16 For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride in possessions—is not from the Father but is from the world.17 And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever.

What’s more important; the things in your life or your relationship with God?  Before you answer that, pause.  It’s easy to jump at answering what we know we’re supposed to say, but take a moment.  Think about what really matters in your life.  How do you spend your money?  Your time?  What do you pursue?  Now is your answer still the same?

It’s tempting to be overtaken by our flesh, to give into every craving we have for pleasure or entertainment, or material things.  But those things won’t last and they don’t matter.  They’ll be here one day and gone the next.  These things rot and rust, they deteriorate and fail to satisfy.  But God is eternal and He’s never going to leave us.  Shouldn’t we put more into walking with Him than we do in walking in worldly desires?

John goes so far in God’s Word to say that if we love this world we don’t love God.  Let that sink in.  If you spend more time trying to gain pleasure out of this life than you do trying to walk in God’s will, then you really don’t love God.  It sounds harsh, but put it in human terms.  If I marry a woman and then spend most of my time trying to make myself happy through every means besides her, then do I really love her?  If God is really our love, then we should be pleased by Him and not need all of the other things of this world.  They won’t matter to us because all we’ll want is more of Him.

Love The Lord

The Commands of Jesus Series

Matthew 22:36-38  “Teacher, which is the most important commandment in the law of Moses?” 37  Jesus replied, “‘You must love the LORD your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’  38  This is the first and greatest commandment.

There are a lot of commands that talk about what you do on the outside but the number one command in the Bible talks about what is in the inside.

Loving the Lord “with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind” is  a command that only God can tell if you are truly doing it or not, we can look like it on the outside but it is what is in the heart that God is judging.

In the ten commandments God tells us:

  • No idol or image should be made to replace him
  • He is a jealous God
  • Obedience brings love, disobedience brings judgment
  • Don’t misuse his name
  • Keep the sabbath

God is asking me to make him number one and to give him the respect that he is due, the world is full of people that do not care at all about him or what he wants from us, as his child I have to be careful that I do not mistreat him and disrespect him.

You might like to read:
Who Is Your God?  //  God Will Get The Glory //  Are You God’s Friend? 

Let’s get Uncomfortable

Francis Chan says that, “Those in the most uncomfortable places experience God.” I find this to be especially a challenge in a society in which being comfortable is our way of life.

 

Much of our time, energy, and money go into our pursuit of comfort.  Electric bills testify of our love of that perfect household temperature, duel car households usually need the duel incomes to match the lifestyle, convenience foods rack up our grocery bills; the list of our tangible comforters is endless.

 

These creature comforts in an of themselves are not sinful, but how does our addiction to comfort translate to our spiritual life? In my life it has often translated to sitting in a pew on Sunday, listening to Christian radio and devouring Christian books while keeping my mouth shut about the gospel and neglecting to serve the body of Christ. 1 Corinthians 8:1 says, “But knowledge puffs up while love builds up.” I love knowledge; in fact, I could probably spend all day reading books and googling things. But, loving people, really loving people, isn’t as comfortable.

 

Jesus said, “ “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” This command is certainly not a comfortable one for most Christians to follow.  Loving people as we love ourselves is not comfortable. We need to learn to step outside of our comfort zone and ask ourselves just how comfortable we are spiritually. How far out of our comfort zone is God calling us?

 

Dear God, show us the areas in our lives in which we are too comfortable. Please help us to step out and lean on your  love and comfort in order to experience You more fully and fulfill Your calling in our lives.

The Disciples Paradox of Hate and Love

The price of discipleship seems as if it would be a high one, doesn’t it? After all, it was our blessed Savior, Christ Jesus, who admonished, “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters–yes, even his own life–he cannot be my disciple.” (Luke 14:26) In a sense it almost seems contradictory to the nature of God, who is love, who taught us, for example, to honor our mother and our father, (Exodus 20:12) and who tells us that to live in hate is to live in death, devoid of the His grace. (1John 2:9-11)

How do we reconcile this to find the true nature of Christ’s calling? How do we look past the inherent ambiguity of this teaching, seeming so inconsistent with all that we have learned otherwise sitting at the feet of our Redeemer?

When Scripture speaks of the believer, it speaks of a person who is free of the yokes and the burdens of this world, telling us where the Spirit is, there is the truest of liberties. (2 Corinthians 3:17) Freedom, in its most basic sense, in its most fundamental of forms, does not and cannot exist in any form of hatred. Hatred is a chain that, when placed around our neck, strangles the life from us as surely as it kills faith itself. The healing that we have been called to is no longer possible, because, in the weakness that it brings, we have forsaken all that was meant to preserve sacred and strengthen life.

At the core of Christ’s teaching is not hatred, nor could it be if he truly is God, as we know him to be. God is, after all, love (1 John 4:8) and love itself is what is at the heart of the matter.

The two greatest commandments that fulfill all aspects of the law are that we love the Lord our God with all of our hearts, and souls and minds, and that we love our neighbors as we love ourselves. (Matthew 22:36:40) Yet, even as we consider that teaching we must remember that Christ did not put these on equal footing. The first was to love the Lord, while the second was to love others. At the heart of the matter is that if we are to be faithful to God, if we are to truly follow Him with our whole heart, willing to be led as He would lead us then we can love nothing more than we love Him. Even in the context of the original Greek this is the meaning that lies behind the use of “Hate”, not as we so often think about it, but rather in terms of loving less.

Discipleship means that we must be willing to sacrifice. In love, it means a willingness to give everything and anything in love and hope for others. (John 15:14) When we love God, when we love Christ more than we love anything else, we are willing to give up what is necessary to serve our risen Savior in the hope, the faith, the strength, and the love he first taught us. (John 13:34-35) It means we are willing to offer all of who we are in healing as we find ourselves able to let go and let God lead us.

Perhaps this may be a burden for us, a cross that we must take up and carry. But, in a sense it is a trade, for when we trust God, when we look to Him, holding Him first, we cast the heavier burdens of this world, the self-doubt, the uncertainty for the future, the hurt of lose and the pain of longing far from us, and we take upon us the yoke of service that shines in hope, and dwells in a faith and a knowledge that though we may be affected by the course of this world, nothing will affect us much as it teaches us the value and the worth that truly rests in His creation and His plan.

As you are called to be a Disciple of Christ, God will never ask more of you than you can give, more of you than you can offer. Understanding that we must be willing to lay all of ourselves on the altar of God as a sacrifice, knowing that, as much is given to us in the grandness of His design much will be asked of us. Yet that price of discipleship should be one we are always willing to pay.

The New Commandment

The First Letter of John

1 John 2:7-14 7 Beloved, I am writing you no new commandment, but an old commandment that you had from the beginning. The old commandment is the word that you have heard.8 At the same time, it is a new commandment that I am writing to you, which is true in him and in you, because the darkness is passing away and the true light is already shining.9 Whoever says he is in the light and hates his brother is still in darkness.10 Whoever loves his brother abides in the light, and in him there is no cause for stumbling.11 But whoever hates his brother is in the darkness and walks in the darkness, and does not know where he is going, because the darkness has blinded his eyes.

(Click to continue reading 1 John 2:12-14)

What is this old commandment that’s a new commandment that’s really an old commandment?  What does John refer to?  He is speaking of the commandment given to him personally from Jesus himself.  Love God and love others. What was given in the Old Testament as Law (Deuteronomy 6:5, Leviticus 19:18) was confirmed in the New Testament by Jesus as being relevant even after His coming (Matthew 22:34-40).

Notice John’s reference to darkness and light, just like how he speaks in his presentation of the Gospel (John 1:1-13). He’s presenting a contrast for us to realize that the world’s darkness can’t overcome the light of Jesus.  When we obey the command to love God and love others, we shine a light in the darkness so bright that it can’t but be seen.  It’s a shining city upon a hill, giving off a beacon of light for others to recognize.

When we love, we show God to the world.  When we serve, we show them the character of Christ and glorify Him.  When we obey, we do a great work of evangelism (Matthew 5:16).


Matthew 5:3-4

Matthew 5:3-4

Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.

Jesus says that those who mourn are blessed and will be comforted.
Yet, we often turn our mourning into sorrow and begin to question our
purpose and God’s hand in our lives.  When tragedy and pain strike we
need to remember and take to heart the words of Jesus and be comforted
knowing that the Lord is close to the broken hearted and saves those
who are crushed in spirit. (Psalms 34:18)
Instead of letting difficult times discourage us thus making the
presence of God unrecognizable in our life, we can use these times to
draw closer to God and to allow the holy spirit to be our great
comforter.

Matthew 5:3-4 shouts out the realization of how fortunate we are to be
chosen of God, to have our eyes opened, to be drawn to the Savior, to
be the poor and mourning.

The beatitudes hold an invitation to become the kind of person who is
poor in spirit. When we are in mourning we should rejoice and give
thanks for we are then in a place for God to do a great work in our
life.

Believing God Today

Matthew 9:29 and 30 NIV – Then He touched their eyes, saying, According to your faith, be it done to you. Their eyes were opened.

We are sitting at over two weeks into the new year. Did you make resolutions? How have you done?

About.com lists the top ten new years resolutions as follows:

  • Become Fit and battle the Bulge
  • Spend more time with Family
  • Get out of Debt
  • Quit Smoking and Enjoy Life More
  • Quit Drinking
  • Learn Something New
  • Help Others
  • Get Organized

The gyms are slowly becoming less popular and fast food restaurants are becoming more popular. Maybe a couple of us have buckled and swiped the credit card a time or two since 1/1/12. Our human nature gets the best of us and we tend to make more compromises each and every day. We begin to listen to our body and give in to whatever temptation holds us back. No matter how many amazing things that God does, sometimes it’s hard to remember what he can do, and what he does. Our God is a God of moving mountains. When we fail, He has already won. Every step we take on our way to transformation via trusting God and according to His will, is one more step of trust and growth.

What did you resolve to do in 2012? Perhaps a transformed sense of faith is in order this year, or even today. In what ways does God want to transform you in 2012? Whatever it is, it always begins with a first step.

John 3:23 ESV

Beloved, we are God’s children now, and what we will be has not yet appeared; but we know that when he appears we shall be like him, because we shall see him as he is. And everyone who thus hopes in him purifies himself as he is pure.

Idle Words

Psalm 19:14

 May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing to you, O LORD, my rock and my redeemer.

“Preach the Gospel always, use words when necessary,” is a quote commonly attributed to St. Francis. I believe we start shining God’s light through our unspoken lives, but have noticed how quickly we can damage our witness with our idle words or useless chatter, not to mention, godless unwholesome jokes and conversations.

Matthew 15:18 says “the things that come out of the mouth come from the heart, and these make a man unclean.” What we put in our minds is often what we let slip into our hearts and then through our lips.

Let us guard our hearts and minds from the things this world has to offer and let us strain what we receive in a day through the sieve of God’s word so that only His words may take root in our hearts and His words will be what our mouths utter. Cling to the goodness of our God and resist the temptation of ungodly speech.

Oftentimes I feel as if I am of little importance in the grand scheme of things. This kind of thinking can lead to apathy toward and justification in the way we use our words. Yet, the closer I draw to God the more I realize He has a purpose and plan to use each one of us for the revelation of His glory to this world through our words and actions.
Heavenly Father help us lay at your feet what we let into our
hearts and what we let slip through our lips. Teach us to be slow to
speak idle words and quick to put our thoughts on you.


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