1 Peter 3:15 but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect
As a Christian, you have something that people are going to want. If you’re walking out your faith as a devoted follower you’ll have joy that can’t go unnoticed. People who are curious about the hope you’ve found are going to ask you what makes you different. Are you ready to give an answer?
We’ve got to be ready at all times, in season and out of season, to give a testimony bearing witness to all God’s done in our lives. Truth be told, no greater sermon exists than the testimony of someone whose life has been changed by the Savior. If you regularly take inventory of all God has done, praise Him for it and thank Him for it, you’ll be ready when someone wants to know about your Lord.
Take note of the fact that Peter took the time and effort to include a few words at the end of this passage that weren’t just thrown in there. Cautioning people to go about witnessing with gentleness and respect was intentional because it can be tempting to get defensive when someone approaches us, especially if we’re caught off guard. The more prepared we are to give testimony, the more likely we are to react with even emotions, with gentleness and respect for the person asking. What’s your story? What is God doing in your life?
John 15:10 If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love.
In order to remain in fellowship with God, we must “abide” in Him, but how do we do this? If we speak to God in prayer and hear from God in His Word, what do we do with we’ve said and heard? How do we walk in this fellowship?
Sin separates us from God. Any sin. But it’s not about the wrong acts of sin, it’s about the broken relationship. A perfect, holy God can’t tolerate sin and still be in fellowship with the sinner. We have to be righteous, just as He is righteous (Matthew 5:48). But a problem exists. We’re not perfect and we can’t be! So we come back to the question of how we can be in fellowship with God if the requirement is perfection.
First of all, just as sin is a broken relationship with God rather than wrong acts, righteousness is a right relationship with God rather than good acts. We may not be capable of perfection, but we have been given the righteousness of Christ, who is perfect, if our lives are submitted to Him. Only then do we have any ability to obey God. You see, obeying doesn’t lead to righteousness. Imputed righteousness (look that up, it’s a great word study) empowers us to obey. Jesus’ work on the cross frees us that we might be able to obey God, because we love Him. Obedience based on love can only lead to loving fellowship.
John 16:24 Until now you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be full.
How do we connect with God? We hear from Him in the Bible, learn who He is and what His will is, and gain fellowship with Him. But what about our side of the conversation? How does God hear from us?
Prayer is our way of speaking to the Lord and a big part of fellowship with Him. We mainly pray in one of several fashions. Confession is where we own up to our sins before God and receive the forgiveness He’s given in Christ. Petition is the time to ask for our needs to be met (“Give us this day our daily bread”), while intercession is asking for the needs of others to be met. Thanksgiving and praise are vital to fellowship as well. Giving thanks to God for all He’s done puts our hearts in a humble place where we’re more capable of experiencing Him and praising Him.
Without prayer, fellowship with God falters because we can’t even carry on a human relationship without speaking to the other person, let alone a close relationship with the Creator of all things. We wants our attention, our time, our devotion. Talking the time to speak to God serves a key role in our spiritual well-being.