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A Question of Why

Why? Isn’t that always the question? Often times it’s the one short little three letter word that defines for us our trials and adversity, our struggles and our pain. We ask it as we try to make some sort of semblance of sense out of everything we can’t figure out enough to actually make sense. We do it to the point where it’s not just a question anymore, but the answer as well.

How often have we found ourselves challenged, asking ‘Why’? “Why me?” “Why now?” “Why do bad things happen to good people?” “If God is so good and He loves us, they why would He let this happen?” At times, it’s the easiest and quickest word to roll off of our tongues in our hour of need, knowing we just don’t know and that what we need to know isn’t going to come simply or readily to us even for as much as we want it to.

But then life is difficult, it’s hard and it’s wrought with challenges. Just when we think we’ve gotten our head wrapped around it enough to actually do something, it throws a curve ball that knocks us off our game. Sometimes it’s small, and we’re able to pick ourselves up and dust ourselves off saying “Nothing ventured, nothing gained” as we move on from it. Other times it’s big and it’s encompassing and, for as much as we want it to, we can’t quite seem to do it, we can’t quite figure it out enough to do it. It leaves us with this hurt feeling as we wonder if it’s ever going to be the same. In those moments, “Why” is about the only thing that’s uncomplicated about the complicated to us.

The thing is it’s not always about the “Why”. After all, for as unclear as it may all be, for as convoluted as it perhaps seems to be, the “Why” is actually transparent, it’s not that complex at all. We live in a sinful world; one that, since the fall of man, has been marked with trials and temptations. (Genesis 3:1-19) As Peter reminds us, “Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” (1 Peter 5:8) Is there a greater “Why” than this?

Even the most righteous, the most faithful, living in this mortal realm, need fear the old adversary, and they need to do so more than the unrighteous. After all, the greater question of “Why” is why would the Devil go after a soul he already has when the nature of man is to abide in fear and doubt? He knows this, and he doesn’t go after the weak alone, but the strong, hunting them, seeking to make them his own.

No, the question isn’t “Why?” regardless of how easy it comes. “Why” is often times the means by which uncertainty attacks that which we need to be the most certain of. “Why” is the easiest way to make the simple become complex, so complex that we can’t begin to understand it. “Why”, for as hard as it may be to let go of, is how comfort and peace is robbed from us as it sends us looking everywhere but where we need to for the answers.

It’s not “Why” that’s the most important thing, but rather “What” and “How”. “What am I supposed to learn?” “How is this going to make me a better person?” “What can I do differently?” “How can I use this to grow in faith and better understand God’s plan for me?” Regardless of the pain and the hardships we may face, these are the questions we not only have to ask but the ones that need to draw us closer and nearer to our Heavenly Father.

The promise of God is the promise that where we are so He is as well. He will never fail us or forsake us. (Joshua 1:5) His covenant with us is the covenant that stands by His blessed assurances to us in the faithfulness of His love and mercy. (Deuteronomy 4:31) So strong is He in that love and care He has for us, in the covenant He has made with us, He would give His only Son to die for us (John 3:16) even when we seemed like we were lost to sin, death and the Devil. How much more then does the wonders of His Word mean when He tells to us that, if we come to Him, in faith and hope, He will give us the knowledge that we so seek? (James 1:5-6)

Even when we stumble, even when we fall, even when the world seems unfair, unnecessarily so, our blessed Savior is there for us, to take the yoke of our burdens from us. (Matthew 11:28-30) Again, the “Why” is simple, it’s a matter then of “What are we meant to do with the freedom He has given us?” and “How can we use His good gifts to be the people He has intended for us to be?” We can only do that, we can only answer that by letting go of “Why”, understanding that it has already been answered for us, and we are not in control of it, all we can control is what we do with the blessed gifts and the wonderful promises God has given to us.

It’s only then that we can find the peace, the hope, and the comfort we so long for.

Hope in God

Psalm 42:11 Why are you cast down, O my soul, and why are you in turmoil within me? Hope in God; for I shall again praise him, my salvation and my God.

Have you ever reached that point of being at rock bottom?  Have you ever been in the pit of despair, the place where you feel like you’re just never going to get out?  Did you feel hopeless?  The good news is, for those who belong to God there is always hope.

The truth of the matter is, becoming a Christian doesn’t guarantee that all o four problems go away.  It doesn’t guarantee sunny days and smooth sailing.  It certainly doesn’t mean we’ll never have to face depression.  There may be times that life seems bleak.  It doesn’t mean God isn’t with us through it.  He’s right there beside us.

There’s no easy way to explain why God allows us to go through those times without just lifting us out of them.  It may be that He wants to see us grow from the experience or that in some way it brings Him glory.  It may be in your circumstance that you’ll never know God’s purpose.  That’s hard, but there’s always hope.

God loves you.  He doesn’t want anything to harm you unless it’s somehow tied to His plan for your life.  Trust in Him.  Trust that He knows what’s best and has a kind heart towards you.  Cry out to Him and all Him to be your comfort.  Expect Him to rescue you from the pit.  He is good, all the time.

Give

On mission

Romans 10:14-15  How then will they call on him in whom they have not believed? And how are they to believe in him of whom they have never heard? And how are they to hear without someone preaching? And how are they to preach unless they are sent? As it is written, “How beautiful are the feet of those who preach the good news!”

How can we reach the whole world with the Gospel of Jesus Christ?  It happens through sacrifice.  In order to reach them we’ve got to give of ourselves.  We’ve got to be willing to do without so that they can hear the Good News.

We may be required to give financially so that resources and supplies can be purchased or travel can be accommodated.  We may need to give of our time to help mobilize a team or to go out on a mission trip.  We may need to give up our own comfort so that others can be reached.  All of this can extend around the world or be true of our own home town.  Giving for the sake of others knowing Christ might be allowing someone else to have your seat in church so that they can hear the message.  It might mean sitting through an uncomfortable sermon that others need to hear.  It might mean interacting with “sinners” and stepping out of our comfort zone to love them for the sake of Christ.  Giving sometimes hurts, but it’s for a good cause.

Giving may be this or it might be that, but there’s one thing it’s not:  optional.  All believers are called to reach others for Christ and the kingdom of God grows through us.  But if we won’t give, they won’t be reached and we hinder the Holy Spirit’s work.  Let’s choose to give so that they might hear.